DEE/Rare Epilepsy Sibling Support

Supporting Rare Epilepsy Families and Siblings

Siblings are so often the unsung heroes of rare epilepsy families.

Let’s make them feel like the stars that they are!

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All rare epilepsy families face challenges—it’s a reality of living with a rare seizure disorder. You know better than anyone that caring for a child with a rare epilepsy requires considerable energy, time, and flexibility. And that has an impact on every member of the family—including your VIP sibling. As helpful and involved as they may be with their brother or sister, VIP siblings have needs and concerns of their own. Sometimes, they feel alone.

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Siblings Feel It Too - Unhappiness


of siblings reported being unhappy sometimes or a lot of the time.

Siblings Feel It Too - Depression


of adult siblings reported a history of treatment for clinical depression.

Siblings Feel It Too - Anxiety


of young siblings expressed fear that their sibling might die.

Siblings Feel It Too - Irritability


of young siblings reported feeling irritable or grumpy sometimes or a lot of the time.

Many siblings say they have learned to feel compassion and are more understanding of others who are disabled. Other findings showed that siblings can often feel stressed, anxious, or fearful.*

* A recent study called the Siblings Voices Survey looked at the emotional impact of growing up with a brother or sister with severe epilepsy.

How We Can Help

We have been honored to have collaborated over the past year with UCB, sponsors of important research on rare epilepsy siblings. Working alongside nine other patient group leaders, we have adapted the research and tools developed for the Dravet community for siblings and families of all rare epilepsies.

We’re delighted to offer you these unique resources to inform and encourage your families and your amazing VIP siblings.

Parents & Caregivers Kit

Parents & Caregivers Kit

Designed by the rare epilepsy community to help parents and caregivers support their VIP siblings.

Parents & Caregivers Kit

VIP Sibling Kits

Available in two age-appropriate versions, these kits are designed especially for VIP siblings to help them cope and celebrate how important they are.

Parents & Caregivers Kit

Tools & Resources

Access at your fingertips to all printed components of the Parents & Caregivers Kit, VIP Sibling Kits, and more!

Links To Additional Resources

Epilepsy Foundation offers Kids Crew for children of any ability level who have, or want to support, someone with epilepsy; Contact: Jon Scheinman


Sam’s Sibs Stick Together – series on and by sibs sponsored by the Autism Science Foundation and Els for Autism  

Contact:  Alicia Halladay at


Hope for HIE has a super sibs group where families can set up their same age siblings in penpals, refers people to Sibling Support Project

Contact: Betsy Pilon,, 248-703-6914

The Sibling Support Project is a national program dedicated to the life-long and ever-changing concerns of millions of brothers and sisters of people with special developmental, health, and mental health needs. Initiatives include: Sibshops events,  Online Communities for Brothers and Sisters networking groups for siblings and other family members, Publications, and Workshops and Training  Contact: | (425) 362-6421 | Emily Holl, Director;

Numerous Early Start Family Resource Centers and Parent Training & Information Centers (PCITs), (funded by the federal Individuals w/Disabilities Education Act - IDEA) in each state provide parent-to-parent support including sibling support as well. The organization in each state may be affiliated with Parent-to-Parent USA and/or Family Voices.  

Program links to identify state affiliates:

Parent to Parent US

Family Voices  

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